Results typical with use of steroids, not from lifting 10 pounds.

It’s so rare that I see women so fit their rippling biceps are bursting through their shirts. In fact, let’s be real clear—I see more women with fat arms than fit, women with thin arms than toned, so I just cannot understand the fear of the dreaded muscular bulk.

Trainers that advocate high reps with 3-5 pounds are, in my view, unknowledgeable and useless. Ouch. But it’s true, even though it’s my opinion.

They continue to perpetuate the myth that heavy weights will cause women to build she-man bulk.

I am a bulk generator, I can gain muscle size from yoga. As a kid I was taunted about my veins and the fact that my biceps were bigger than most boys. But now, I am grateful for my muscles, I have confidence in the fact that the bigger they are, the more they’ll help me through life—to hike the mountains I love, or someday, throw my kids around without throwing out my back.

Go forth ladies and embrace being muscular. Muscle is the new sexy, thin arms are sooo yesterday, I know this because I passed it on to my way to getting sexy, defined arms.

Q: We love your website. DomestiGal Jen has about 10 months until her wedding (shhh… she’s not officially engaged yet since her diamond-of-dreams has not yet been bought). Anyway, what’s the best way for her to get her arms in shape while in business school? Colossus, her studly personal trainer while in London, works out with her 3 days a week and she has to look hotter than hot for her strapless wedding gown.

Hey Domestigal Jen!

Every woman who writes to me seems to want toned arms, so let’s go through some of the basics of an arm-toning workout and then put it all together in a routine that you can take to the gym.

To tone a muscle you need to lose fat
This is the big essential tip that you need to learn! Arm toning is not possible without losing fat and it’s not possible to lose fat off of only your arms. This means that if you want to tone your arms you need to start a weight loss program that will help you lose weight from your whole body.

You need to work with heavy weights to build muscle

With a low body fat percentage your muscles will start to shine through as defined and firm. So, weight loss is just as important as muscle gain when it comes to arm toning.

Many women are concerned about getting bulky but really shouldn’t be as they do not have enough testosterone to get big. If a trainer or a gym instructor tells you to use light weights with high reps to tone your arms, tell them they’re dumb and leave. Working out with lighter weights and higher reps is a bad rumor that we should all ignore.

The reason is simple. When you weight train you break your muscles slightly and the rebuilding is what produces muscle growth. Heavy weights obviously stresses them more and will amount to more muscles being torn and rebuilt. Heavy weights will also speed up your metabolism which in turn will burn more fat thus helping you tone your arms.

The exercises
The exercises for your arm toning are simple weight lifting exercises that are done with free weights (bar bells and dumb bells).

1 – Bar bell curl
Standing with your feet shoulder width apart grab a bar bell about shoulder width apart. With your elbows locked firmly to a position by your side, lift the weight up using your biceps to the top of your chest. Lower it slowly down without moving your elbows and repeat.

2 – Alternate dumb bell curl
Standing with feet shoulder width apart grab two dumb bells and let them rest at your side. Tensing your bicep curl one dumb bell up and twist it so that when the dumb bell reaches it’s top position near your shoulder your palm is facing your shoulder. As you lower this dumb bell down to it’s starting position repeat with the opposite arm.

Triceps
1 – Close grip bench press

Laying on a bench take a medium heavy bar bell a bit narrower than shoulder width grip and bring it down to your lower ribs. Push the weight up using your triceps and lower it to the same position. Just before it reaches your chest fire it up in the pushing direction again before it gets a chance to rest on your body. This prevents your chest from taking over with the weight lifting.

2 – Tricep kickbacks
Take a light dumb bell in your right hand. Place your left hand and left knee on a low flat bench. Keeping your back straight lift your elbow so that your upper arm is in line with your torso. Slowly tense your tricep and lift the dumb bell to a position where you arm is almost locked out straight. Lower and repeat.

The arm toning workout

These are the basic four exercises that you will use to build your foundation of strength and technique. Remember, without perfect technique you will not make any progress so exert yourself in making sure that your posture and lifting method is perfect.

1. Warm up with some cardio, stretching and light weights.
2. Bar bell curls – 4 sets of 10-15 reps
3. Narrow grip bench press – 4 sets of 8-10 reps
4. Alternate dumb bell curls – 4 sets of 8-10 reps
5. Tricep kickbacks – 4 sets of 10-15 reps

Remember, when a rep number says 8-10 it means that you should pick a weight that causes you to ‘fail’ in that rep range. It does not mean that you pick a light weight and only do 8 reps. It means you should be struggling to get to 8. Perform each exercise with care and slowly. Do not be tempted to pump out the reps quickly.